It seems apparent that an attraction to BDSM and related activities does not stem from negative emotions or experiences, but rather that it can be an avenue through which to confront them, and more importantly, ourselves. Could the reasons why practitioners seem to score high on mental tests be that they’re more apt at…
This makes so much sense.
I’ve been struggling with some personal shit and I knew BDSM would help me deal with it (in a way vanilla sex doesn’t.)
Yesterday I had a scene with my partner and I felt so empowered and alive; the intensity of the physical sensations and the emotional closeness took me so deep in myself.
After it, I felt like my mind was relieved from tons of weight.