Couldn’t agree more. It’s sexy, it’s pleasurable, it’s deep connection.
Long time ago, I had the idea that during a 69 you couldn’t stop, the mutual stimulation had to be constant.
Now, I allow myself to stop to catch my breath or simply to enjoy a OMFG sensation my lover is giving me. I never fully stop, my hand(s) is always on him, but my mouth sometimes is not.
Also, achieving orgasm together during a 69, for me, is soooooo fucking sexy! It takes a bit of coordination, but when it happens… hmmmm