A list of my best performing sex pieces

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This list is updated regularly

Here are my TOP TEN stories

#1 Foreplay activities that make my sex life better

I love that this story firmly holds the best performance award. It’s about my own experience and pleasures; it’s amazing to see how it echoed with so many writers. Thank you all.

#2 I surprised my lover with rimming

Since the day I published this piece…

If you’re quiet during sex because you’re repressing yourself, this piece is for you

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Not everybody enjoys talking during sex or to express their desires, but many would like to become less contained — to be more expressive in bed.

I was one of those people: I wanted to tell my partners to spank or finger me in that exact moment, or to tell…

Discover if you are sabotaging your sexual happiness

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All my adulthood, I had satisfactory sex. I had fun and pleasure, and orgasming was never a problem, yet I always felt I could (should) get more from sex. Exactly what, I didn’t know. And, worst, I didn’t try to find out.

I’m still mad at myself for having waited…

You can be one too!

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Sexually, I’m a very different person than I was a decade ago. It never happened to me leaving a partner unsatisfied, but I’m sure I’m wasn’t a memorable fuck. But that changed.

Sexually, maturity and experience did a lot for me, but what made me be a sex beast (a…

On what determines good sex vs bad sex

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The definition of what constitutes “good sex” varies from person to person, but I’m sure there are things many of us agree to make all the difference when having sex.

For me, good sex goes beyond sex positions or the duration of the act, although those things are important.


I’m using them myself and the results have been spectacular.

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I consider myself to be a sexually empowered woman, but it wasn’t always the case, much the opposite.

Apart from two dry spells I had in different phases of my life, I was always sexually active. …

You can’t have a fulfilled sex life if you lie about your pleasure.

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I never faked an orgasm. Not with my partner, my ex-husband; not in casual fucks, with boyfriends or friends with benefits. It never made sense to lie about it.

For me, faking orgasms is to reduce sex to the climax point.

Of course, orgasms matter and for sure I “chase”…

I had an incredible introduction to the swingers lifestyle

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Last December I made a sex wishlist for the new year, and one item was to go to a swingers’ club. …

I embodied a character and the roleplaying fuck was unforgettable

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Roleplaying has been on my sex wishlist for a while. It took me a long time to do it, mostly because I wanted to feel confident about it.

For the last year, I’ve been experimenting with my sex life in a way I could never do. You see, I was…

I lost too much time depriving myself of sexual pleasures. That ends now.

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Last year, I made serious decisions about my sex life. The overall goal was to take it to its full potential — not only seeking orgasmic pleasures but also exploring everything that’s “out there”. But for that to happen, I’d have to reach several milestones.

After started dating Mr P…

Emma London

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