Not everybody enjoys talking during sex or to express their desires, but many would like to become less contained — to be more expressive in bed.

I was one of those people: I wanted to tell my partners to spank or finger me in that exact moment, or to tell…

All my adulthood, I had satisfactory sex. I had fun and pleasure, and orgasming was never a problem, yet I always felt I could (should) get more from sex. Exactly what, I didn’t know. And, worst, I didn’t try to find out.

I’m still mad at myself for having waited…

Sexually, I’m a very different person than I was a decade ago. It never happened to me leaving a partner unsatisfied, but I’m sure I’m wasn’t a memorable fuck. But that changed.

Sexually, maturity and experience did a lot for me, but what made me be a sex beast (a…

The definition of what constitutes “good sex” varies from person to person, but I’m sure there are things many of us agree to make all the difference when having sex.

For me, good sex goes beyond sex positions or the duration of the act, although those things are important.

I…

I consider myself to be a sexually empowered woman, but it wasn’t always the case, much the opposite.

Apart from two dry spells I had in different phases of my life, I was always sexually active. …

I never faked an orgasm. Not with my partner, my ex-husband; not in casual fucks, with boyfriends or friends with benefits. It never made sense to lie about it.

For me, faking orgasms is to reduce sex to the climax point.

Of course, orgasms matter and for sure I “chase”…

Last December I made a sex wishlist for the new year, and one item was to go to a swingers’ club. …

Roleplaying has been on my sex wishlist for a while. It took me a long time to do it, mostly because I wanted to feel confident about it.

For the last year, I’ve been experimenting with my sex life in a way I could never do. You see, I was…