Here’s a peek to my foreplay repertoire — Foreplay can be as much as pleasurable as the sexual act itself. Besides being a trigger to sex — as it increases the sexual tension -, foreplay warms up the bodies and connects the minds. Consequently, it improves the quality (and even duration) of the orgasms. This 2017 study concluded…

A guide on how to use a butt plug (and why it’s so pleasurable) — There are many ways to add novelty and pleasure to your sex life. Sex toys are for me the best way to do it. Amongst my favourites, it’s the butt plug. As the name indicates, it’s a sex toy you insert in your butt. And we all have one of…

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If going down on your partner is not a favourite activity, here are a few ideas to make it more enjoyable for you — Oral sex: most people love to receive it but, on the giving end, the game changes. The number of people who prefer not to go down on their partner is higher than the ones who love to receive oral sex. I’m an advocate for people exploring their sexuality as they…

Stating what your partner can and can't wear isn't boundaries - it's control. and this is where you are missing the point. As I said before, it starts with small things and escalates. Regardless of gender - I made that very clear in my last comment. …

Take it from someone who was where you are — Talking with your partner about sex can be daunting — I know it too well. I was in a long-term relationship with my late partner, and our sex life was good. But that was it: just good. I never had the famous and desirable earth-shattering orgasm; I never explored my…

The do’s and don’ts of this incredible sexual experience — The anus is an erogenous area; it has thousands of nerve endings. This means that regardless of your gender or sexual orientation, you can enjoy orgastic pleasure by stimulating this zone. Unfortunately, anal play and anal sex are associated with female sexual preferences and the men who enjoy it are…

Why use only one sex toy when you can mix them? — I’m a sucker for sex toys. Whatever their form or shape, being it vibrating or static, vanilla or kinky, a sex toy will always add or heighten sensations during sex (solo or partnered). And sex is all about sensations. I don’t use sex toys every time I have sex, but…

6 Strategies to increase your chances of having more than one orgasm during sex — One thing I love about my sex life is my partner being multi-orgasmic. Often, he doesn’t need a refractory period after his orgasm. Before him, I’d never been with a man that keep thrusting after he came to the point of orgasming again (and again!). I can’t deny: Mr P…